Traditional Bengali Wedding Rituals

Rich and Traditional Rituals of a Bengali Wedding

Niladri das

12/23/20241 min read

Aiburobhaat (Bachelor/Bachelorette Feast)

Before the wedding, the bride and groom enjoy a special meal with their families. It's the last feast as a bachelor or bachelorette and is filled with traditional Bengali dishes.

Ashirbaad (Blessing Ceremony)

The elders of the family bless the bride and groom. This ceremony can happen separately at the bride’s and groom’s houses or together, depending on the families' preferences.

Gaaye Holud (Haldi Ceremony)

In this colorful ritual, turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom. This ceremony is filled with laughter, music, and a lot of yellow! It symbolizes purification and beautification before the wedding.

Bor Jatri and Boron (Welcoming the Groom)

The groom, along with his family and friends, arrives at the bride's house or the wedding venue. He is welcomed with an aarti, conch shells, and ululation (uludhwani). This is a grand and joyful procession.

Saat Paak (Circling the Sacred Fire)

The bride circles the groom seven times, covering her face with paan (betel) leaves. This signifies their eternal bond and commitment.

Subho Drishti (First Look)

The bride and groom look at each other for the first time during the wedding ceremony. It's a beautiful moment filled with anticipation and emotion.

Mala Bodol (Exchanging Garlands)

The bride and groom exchange garlands, symbolizing their acceptance of each other. This is often accompanied by enthusiastic cheers from friends and family.

Sindoor Daan

The groom applies sindoor (vermilion) to the bride's forehead. This ritual signifies the bride's new status as a married woman.

Adding these vibrant and meaningful rituals will surely enhance the cultural richness of your blog on Bengali wedding dates.